Which lubricant to choose?
Choosing a lubricant can be a little bit about trial and error but understanding the different properties and any limitations can be a great first step in making your choice.
Water-based
Water-based lubricants are typically the most popular for anyone using condoms - this is because oils can make latex breakdown which is the last thing you want in that situation!
Key points about water-based lubricants:
- Tend to feel "lighter" and more fluid than their oil-based counterparts
- They also tend to be not as messy to use as they wipe off hands/fingers easily
- Water-based lubricants are safe to use with condoms and silicone sex toys.
Try Rumer's water-based lubricant or Simply Lube.
Oil-based
Oil-based lubricants have a thicker feel and tend to be more moisturising. They can be a bit messier to apply so you might want a little towel nearby for wiping fingers on so you don't leave oily handprints on your sheets!
Key points about oil-base lubricants:
- Suitable for people who aren't using condoms
- Safe to use with silicone toys
- Ideal for those who would like a thicker, perhaps longer-lasting sensation
- Often more mature women like the soothing feel of a thicker lubricant.
Try Nu Balm or Rumer's oil-based lubricant.
Silicone
Silicone lubricant has a very luxurious feel and stays slippery until it has washed off. Interestingly, it doesn't leave an oily-sheen on your fingers even though you can still feel the friction-free effect.
Key points about silicone lubricants:
- It lasts and lasts so is ideal for long sex sessions and for those who don't like to stop to reapply lube.
- It can't be used with silicone toys as silicone on silicone leads to a bonding type reaction that will make the surface of your toy tacky...which then makes it difficult to clean.
- However, it CAN be used with the love.not war range of Neo Silicone toys.
- Safe for use with latex and polyisoprene condoms
Try Überlube.