New to sex toys?

Feeling a bit alarmed?!  Don't worry, we get a lot of newbies on our site – we think this is due to the fact we present a less intimidating way to shop than a traditional sex toy store.  If you’ve never tried a toy, we understand that it can be overwhelming to the point you may not know where to start.  Here are our top tips for those who are just dipping their toes in:

Consider what you already know you like

If it’s all about clitoral stimulation for you, check out the toys which offer rabbit ears or a clitoral suction cup.  If you like the thrill of cold or hot, then our glass range might be what you fancy. For guys, perhaps you are keen to try a vibrating masturbator to see what these new sensations bring you - either when solo or as part of foreplay with a partner.  Either way, whatever it is you fancy when toys aren’t involved, making that the focus of your initial purchase makes sense.

Consider your motivations

Are you trying to spice things up between yourself and a partner?  Bedroom boredom happens to everyone in longer term relationships so introducing something new to break the routine can be a game changer…and a relationship saver!  For hetero couples, our vibrating cock rings bring simultaneous pleasure to both partners plus the bonus of firmer, longer-lasting erections.  For hetero or lesbian couples, you might want to try a remote-controlled product like a love egg to take control over your partner’s pleasure. For gay couples, it might be about introducing a vibrating butt plug to bring a different range of sensations.

Or if your motivation is just purely to boost your orgasm count, then see point 1) above – work with what you already enjoy as a starting point and then branch out from there.

Consider size

Size can be daunting if you’re just starting out.  If penetration is on the menu and you’re just not sure how large you’d like it, start with something smaller and scale up with your next purchase.  And if you travel frequently and would like a discreet toy that will slip into the corner of your bag, try Elemi, the best-selling bullet vibrator.

Take your time getting used to it

Once you get your new toy, it’s okay if you find you need to get used to the level of stimulation produced.  If you haven’t experienced how intense vibrations can be, use the lowest settings and perhaps take a breather periodically to let the sensations mellow a bit. (But obviously if it all feels just glorious, don’t hold back – use that thing whenever you find the time!) 

Our products are shipped to you in unbranded, fully recyclable packaging so you don’t need to worry about nosy neighbours or housemates!